[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/co-chcu-muzi-od-zien\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/co-chcu-muzi-od-zien\/","headline":"\u010co chc\u00fa mu\u017ei od \u017eien?","name":"\u010co chc\u00fa mu\u017ei od \u017eien?","description":"Ke\u010f\u017ee Neely sa s peripetiami vz\u0165ahov a rozdielov medzi mu\u017emi a \u017eenami stret\u00e1va takmer denne, v\u0161imla si, \u017ee ne\u017en\u00e9 pohlavie neust\u00e1le analyzuje a rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea nad t\u00fdm, \u010do od nich mu\u017ei […]","datePublished":"2018-07-05","dateModified":"2018-07-05","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0c4621640b5c0734669aeb181ef77969b528487727344f28e734a206566ea0f1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/0c4621640b5c0734669aeb181ef77969b528487727344f28e734a206566ea0f1?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"istos.sk","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a290828_w16526_t1536161145.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a290828_w16526_t1536161145.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/co-chcu-muzi-od-zien\/","wordCount":577,"articleBody":"Ke\u010f\u017ee Neely sa s peripetiami vz\u0165ahov a rozdielov medzi mu\u017emi a \u017eenami stret\u00e1va takmer denne, v\u0161imla si, \u017ee ne\u017en\u00e9 pohlavie neust\u00e1le analyzuje a rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea nad t\u00fdm, \u010do od nich mu\u017ei v partnerstve vy\u017eaduj\u00fa. Preto sa rozhodla s touto ot\u00e1zkou obr\u00e1ti\u0165 na zainteresovan\u00fdch \u2013 teda mu\u017eov a op\u00fdta\u0165 sa priamo ich. Jej ot\u00e1zka znela jasne: \u201e\u010co vy mu\u017ei vo vz\u0165ahu vy\u017eadujete od \u017eien? Na t\u00fato ot\u00e1zku neexistuje spr\u00e1vna odpove\u010f iba to, \u010do je pravdou pre v\u00e1s.\u201c S t\u00fdmto dotazom sa obr\u00e1tila na 25 kamar\u00e1tov na soci\u00e1lnych sie\u0165ach. Odpove\u010f dostala od 12 z nich.  Zatia\u013e, \u010do sa odpovede jednotliv\u00fdch respondentov l\u00ed\u0161ili, mali jedn\u00e9ho spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho menovate\u013ea. T\u00fdm menovate\u013eom je potreba mu\u017eov ma\u0165 pri sebe \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 sa p\u00fd\u0161i svojou \u017eenskos\u0165ou a z\u00e1rove\u0148 umo\u017en\u00ed svojmu partnerovi by\u0165 hrd\u00fdm nosite\u013eom svojej mu\u017eskosti. Prin\u00e1\u0161ame v\u00e1m nieko\u013eko citovan\u00fdch odpoved\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 samozrejme variuj\u00fa v z\u00e1vislosti od chlapa, jeho \u017eivotn\u00fdch postojov, sk\u00fasenost\u00ed a pod. Niektor\u00e9 odpovede v\u00e1s bud\u00fa zaiste bavi\u0165: 1. Chcem \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 je \u017eensk\u00e1 ale siln\u00e1 z\u00e1rove\u0148 \u2013 nie ako mu\u017e, ale \u017eenu, ktor\u00e1 vy\u017earuje pokoj, m\u00fadros\u0165, l\u00e1sku a s\u00facit. \u017denu, ktor\u00e1 mi d\u00e1 to\u013eko, ko\u013eko sa jej toho dost\u00e1va, niekoho pri kom m\u00f4\u017eem by\u0165 s\u00e1m sebou. 2. Jednoducho povedan\u00e9, chcem niekoho, kto ma pri\u0165ahuje, bav\u00ed, vych\u00e1dza s mojimi kamar\u00e1tmi a rodinou a nie je neust\u00e1le v strese. V\u0161etci m\u00e1vame zl\u00e9 dni, ale ak chcete vedie\u0165, \u010do mu\u017ea skuto\u010dne vyv\u00e1dza z miery, tak je to najm\u00e4: \u00b7 50 telefon\u00e1tov za de\u0148, len preto, \u017ee vy \u017eeny m\u00e1te potrebu n\u00e1s kontrolova\u0165. Je to nanajv\u00fd\u0161 otravn\u00e9, najm\u00e4 ke\u010f viete kde sme a s k\u00fdm. \u00b7 Ak n\u00e1s popros\u00edte o radu, uistite sa, \u017ee skuto\u010dne chcete po\u010du\u0165 odpove\u010f. Nie je toti\u017e ni\u010d hor\u0161ie, ako nahneva\u0165 svoju partnerku len t\u00fdm, \u017ee som k nej \u00faprimn\u00fd. \u00b7 Je \u00faplne OK ak sa \u017eena nahnev\u00e1, ale pros\u00edm, povedzte n\u00e1m, \u010do v\u00e1s rozz\u00farilo aby sme to mohli napravi\u0165 a eventu\u00e1lne neopakova\u0165 v bud\u00facnosti. 3. Mu\u017ei s\u00fa stvorenia, zvyknut\u00e9 existova\u0165 na z\u00e1klade zvykov. Funguj\u00fa na princ\u00edpoch zabehnutej rutiny. Ak je ich \u017eivot organizovan\u00fd a d\u00e1 sa predpoveda\u0165, bud\u00fa s tak\u00fdmto \u017eivotom spokojn\u00ed. Nevyh\u013ead\u00e1vaj\u00fa vz\u0165ahy pln\u00e9 dr\u00e1m, konfliktov a prekvapen\u00ed. Ak je to pr\u00e1ve toto, \u010do m\u00f4\u017ee \u017eena pon\u00faknu\u0165, bude chlap h\u013eada\u0165 svoje \u0161\u0165astie niekde inde. 4. Pri \u00favah\u00e1ch ak\u00e1 m\u00e1 by\u0165 moja \u017eena, sa v\u017edy opieram o svoj \u201et\u00e1bor\u00e1k test\u201c. Predstav\u00edm si, \u017ee spolu ideme stanova\u0165 na cel\u00fd v\u00edkend, av\u0161ak po cel\u00fd ten \u010das n\u00e1m pr\u0161\u00ed. Ak sa mi predstava, \u017ee by som s \u0148ou mal presedie\u0165 spokojne v stane cel\u00fd v\u00edkend zap\u00e1\u010di, potom m\u00e1 zmysel, aby sme boli spolu.  5. Chcem vz\u0165ah bez ak\u00fdchko\u013evek nezmyseln\u00fdch hier, bojov poz\u00edcii o moc. Naopak vz\u0165ah pln\u00fd nepodmiene\u010dnej l\u00e1sky a re\u0161pektu. Chcem by\u0165 milovan\u00fd pre to, kto som a ak\u00fd som a nie pre to, k\u00fdm by som mohol alebo mal by\u0165. Chcem v nej umoc\u0148ova\u0165 pocit \u017eenskosti a z\u00e1rove\u0148 zosta\u0165 vern\u00fd svojmu pocitu mu\u017eskosti.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                 "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"\u010co chc\u00fa mu\u017ei od \u017eien?","item":"https:\/\/www.istos.sk\/co-chcu-muzi-od-zien\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]